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So, my ex and I divorced last year, he cheated on me with women he met online. He never acted sorry and never cared about my emotions, and how he ruined our family, as we have a 2 year old son together. I was very mean to him verbally after I found out about the cheating, and have yelled at him on many occassions, and he tells me I ruined his year and that he can never forgive me for some of the things I have said. He also refused to even try marriage counseling, he says that due to what I have said, he says our marriage is beyond repair. The man has the emotion of a stone.

Anyway, he has been really distant the past few months, probably creeping and dating ho’s. However, last month for my birthday he comes over and presents me with a dildo, we have never used toys during our marriage. He told me I could only have it if he could show me how to use it. I told him to keep dreaming, and he went home. He then began to text me non stop about the dildo, asking me if I was using it and asking me to send pics.

He came over on Xmas Eve and we had relations and he got his chance to use the toy with me. I now regret it. He told me he loved me. Yet…he wont come home to reconcile. Today when he dropped our son off he was very aloof and unaffected. After he left, I obsessevily go to his facebook even though he has a private page, just to see if he has changed his profile pic. I cannot stop obsessing. I was a good wife to him, never cheated, I looked great and I kept a nice home.

He told me last night that I need a man that is more strong and secure than he is, and that when I find a new man he will be jealous.

If he does not want to be married, and tells me daily to move on and find another man and to leave him alone, why did he buy me a dildo and then text me constantly about it asking if I have used it and to describe to him what it is like????

I am going through a hard time emotionally, he has never supported me and I hope all the time he will come back to me. I have nobody to talk to about this besides you kind people.

Thanks.
He claims to not physically cheated, but some of his texts and emails to these women included nude pictures of them, and he told them they were hot and cute. He also had fake online dating profiles claiming he was single and gave out his phone number.

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He got relief. If he wanted to reconcile, he would put forth effort.

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